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My Male Chastity Fetish

There are some things about male chastity fetish that I absolutely adore. Of course, there are some things about it that I can do without at times as well. The downside to being involved in this type of a fetish is the fact that I end up having to wear the chastity cage all the time, and that can get a bit annoying at times. Have you ever tried to sit down while using public transportation with a cage locked around your penis and have someone that is three sizes too big for the seat sit down next to you? Believe me, it’s not an experience that you want to go through!

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Guys that aren't involved in chastity will find it difficult to sit in public transportation seats when someone like this sits down next to you. You can't just reach down and adjust yourself so that you aren't pinching or sitting on something you don’t want to be, but wearing a cage while this is happening is one thing that is difficult to work through. I have felt pressure before, but nothing describes the amount of pressure you can get when you are in this kind of a situation, especially when you really don’t want to have to deal with something like this in the first place.

Of course, I have had a few experiences with men's chastity that were pleasant to deal with as well. One of the most memorable experiences that I have had involved a late night rendezvous in a hotel while I was out of the country on business. Now, I didn’t wear the cage while I was flying because they tend to set the metal detectors off and it's a bit difficult to explain to security why you are wearing a cage in this day and age. I was able, however, to get to the hotel and immediately put it on in my room.

After that, I decided to take my male chastity fetish cage out for a stroll around the block. While out walking, I met a very sexy guy that showed me around. We had dinner that night and some drinks back in my room. Things were starting to get a little hot and I decided that I should probably take off the chastity cage (I know, the whole idea is chastity but things like this don’t happen to me all the time, after all.). So I went in to the bathroom to take my cage off and have some fun.

One of the things about chastity that you have to remember is that there is a key that comes with your cage. This key is the only way that you can take your cage off and you want to keep it with you during important times. Without it, you are going to have a very hard time getting it off. Well, it seems as though I had forgotten my key and left it in my apartment. Since I was thousands of miles away, it wasn’t going to do me any good.

Now, some guys would just decide to tell the person they are with that nothing can happen and that would be it. Since I am not like other guys, I decided to share my male fetish with this man that I had met earlier. I told him what I was wearing and what the problem was. At first, he was a bit shocked that I would be wearing something like that, but once I showed him what it was all about, he got extremely turned on by it. I found out later that this man found the chastity fetish to be something that he would highly enjoy for years to come and it was all because of me.

Once I explained to him why I enjoyed the aspect of chastity, he informed me that he would love to be able to take this all into the bedroom and see what we could do together. Granted, there wasn’t a lot I could do in the sex department as far as my entrapped penis was concerned, but there was plenty that I could do that didn’t involve that part of my body. That was one of the hottest nights I had ever spent with another person in my entire life and it was all do to forgetting the key to my cage.


Granted, that may not sound all that great to other guys that are into men's chastity, but for me it was one memory that I will never forget. In fact, there are times when I spend the night just reliving that moment alone in my bed. Remembering every little detail about how it felt to make someone orgasm without even touching my penis and how it felt to have him curled up against my body for the rest of the night while he slept. Nothing is better than being with someone that truly appreciates the lifestyle you have chosen to live.

I have chosen to enjoy my fetish chastity devices as often as I possibly can, and it doesn’t bother me at all if the people around me don’t understand it. I always tell people that they should at least try something new in their lives once before judging me about the things I enjoy. That will usually shut them up enough that I can get on with the things I was doing before they decided to open their mouths and show me just how ignorant they truly are. That is another thing I like about wearing my chastity device in public.

I have a few different cock chastity devices that I like to wear. I have one for around the house that is a bit difficult to hide from anyone that might come over. Even wearing it under clothing is a bit difficult because of the size and way that it's made. I found the one that I like to wear to work on Koalaswim.com, and it fits so well that most people aren't even aware that I am wearing something like it under my clothing. It is also the one that I like to wear when I go out at night or on the weekends.

The one I wear around the house takes penis chastity to the extreme as it not only locks my penis up, but it also tends to stretch it out a bit. In this way, I get the feeling of having an erection all the time, but I can't actually do anything with it, even if I wanted to. The one I bought from Koalaswim.com is small enough that I can wear it under just about any clothing and it won't be noticeable. It also keeps my penis from getting even semi hard, and I do love that feeling.

No matter where I might be heading, I enjoy throwing on my cock chastity device for the day. Now a lot of guys out there might wear their device all the time, and that is fine for them. But I like to be able to take it off when I get home and enjoy the comfort of not wearing one from time to time. I have been known to go a few weeks while wearing one of my devices, but that doesn’t happen all that often.

I guess you could say that I am not a diehard fanatic when it comes to gay chastity, but I do tend to use it more often than just as a sexual enhancement object or toy. I love the fact that I can take it off when I want to or leave it on and be punished at the same time. There are times when all I want to do is take it off, but I force myself to keep it on so that I can remember why I bought the thing from Koalaswim.com to begin with. That is probably the best feeling I ever get from my cage when I decide to leave it on, anyway.

Now, there are a lot of men in the world that will want to wear their sissy chastity device all the time and never take it off. While that is something of a personal choice, I have found that you get much greater satisfaction out of it if you do take it off from time to time. You don’t actually have to do anything when you have it off, but you should let your penis breathe and have some kind of freedom once in a while. If you keep the poor thing locked up all the time, you might forget what it's used for.


I have also found that my male sissy chastity device needs to be cleaned on a regular basis, and taking it off is the easiest way of doing that. I have tried using alcohol swabs and various other methods of cleaning my cages from Koalaswim.com, and while they do work, it's much better if you take it off and clean it properly once in a while just to make sure you get it clean enough. Sometimes it helps to sanitize the thing as well, so keep that in mind.

You don’t want to be walking around with a male chastity fetish device that smells sour because you keep it on all the time and never actually clean it, do you? I sure don’t want to go through anything like that. That is why I make sure to take my cage off and clean it really well at least once a week. I can do some basic cleaning with it on every day, but performing that once a week deep cleaning allows me to give my penis the freedom it deserves. On top of that, I always feel better when I put a freshly cleaned cage back on.

It doesn’t matter what you might think about chastity in and of itself. Unless you have actually tried a fetish like this, there really isn't anything you can tell me about it. I have found that the guys that have no experience with something of this nature, or anything else they might have found on Koalaswim.com, usually have the most to say about it. I find that rather amusing. Then, I always tell them to purchase their own items and try them out before they start telling me how it's going to ruin my life or make me turn into something they don’t like. Some people really need to mind their own business, I think, particularly when it comes to sexual matters.

Being into male sissy chastity isn't like being an alcoholic or drug addict, after all. It's not like I am going to put on my cage and suddenly have my driving ability impaired. In fact, I find that I can drive a lot better since I don’t really want to get into an accident and have to have the EMT’s cut my device off. I can’t imagine it being pleasurable to have to explain to everyone why I was wearing something like that in the first place. Some things are better left unsaid, and my fetish is one of the things that doesn’t need to be talked about with most people.

I have had some friends of mine find out about my male sissy fetish and they ask serious questions about it. I don’t mind things like that since they are actually curious about it and not trying to change me or make fun of me in any way. For times like that, I enjoy telling them everything I know about my devices and how they can purchase their own at koalaswim.com to find out exactly what it's like to wear one for themselves. If they choose to go that route, then they have that right.

I don’t force my cock chastity fetish on anyone as I don’t think it is right for other people to force their beliefs and fetishes off on me. I think that doing things like that makes you a hypocrite, and I am not ready to be like that just yet in my life. Maybe when I am older, I will start telling people how to live their lives, but for right now, I am perfectly content in worrying about living my own life the way that I want to live it. I love my penis chastity fetish and I wish to be left alone with it for the most part. I enjoy going to Koalaswim.com and looking at their new items that they have, and if you want to join me, then that would be great, too. However, I don’t expect you to do that just to make me happy.